I was with my friend the other day...just the usual hangouts you know...being girls obviously we love to discuss about relationships..and stuff you know..well most of us do..even if some of us don't like.So,as always the first question that pops into one girls mind is Hey! do you have a boyfriend???????Then depending on the answer the conversation continues..If your friend has a crush on someone..then guys you are just a gone case...i mean there's no way she would discuss something else once she starts discussing or to be precise describing about this just so wonderful and amazing guy..you may or may not meet...and if she doesn't have a crush you are pretty much saved...well i'm not criticizing anything but this is what usually happens...a girl who has a crush can't just get off that thing....
So,as I said I was with my friend,I was interested in knowing about her love life..so,i asked do you have a guy that you like???She answered in a manner which gave me the impression that she is completely in love with the guy...what she said was something like this: ""i like him a lot... i care about him a lot..if i don't see him i get frustrated...i''m 24x14 thinking about him...he's the only thing on my mind..."At first i thought maybe she's infatuated with him..i told her so..she was like no..this has been going on since the past 2 years...and a lot more stuff...so i ended up telling her that YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HIM..She screamed at me NO!!!!! well i felt helpless..i mean clearly she had all the signs of falling in love...if you say that you are not infatuated neither you have lust for him...nor are you addicted so obviously you love him..i tried to keep my points...but she just argued back and at last she asked me something simple and yet a very difficult question WHAT IS LOVE?????
WHAT IS LOVE??? doesn't it look simple to answer...we all know what it is right..it's simply a feeling..but then what kind of feeling good?bad?excellent?superb?pleasant????just what kind of feeling it is???or all of them together???We humans experience it at various stage of life...but when it comes to explaining how should we describe it...Well..I couldn't answer her that time...and we just changed the subject which was a tough task as we always ended up with the discussion on the guy..
In night I lay down thinking...what it actually is????A PURE and SIMPLE feeling....with gentleness and kindness..then something else happened i kept on thinking about all the things that i experienced when it felt like love...or when it was actually love...and i finally understood it...
L-LET
O-ONESELF
V-VALUE
E-EVERYTHING
When we people start valuing something which is important or very dear to us..then no matter what wee never let anything happen to it....when something happens to it...we are angered...that is just because we actually valued it...and it was important to us...even the smallest things in our lives we love...the pleasant wind caressing...the sun rays lightly falling gently on us...when we are with our families...when we have just bought something from our very first salary...(though that's a non living thing but it still holds a very important place in our life...we won't like it to be gone or broken.. )
